Today is the 2 year anniversary that my family has lived in Finland. It seems like its been a short/long experience depending on the day. We plan on moving back next summer and I am already missing things here. It is always hard leaving a place that starts to feel like home. I have created a top ten list of things I have learned while in Finland
And hope to take with me to our next adventure.
1. Learned to bake from scratch.
They do not have the convenient ready to make boxes here like they do in the states, but I am happy to say I like the real homemade items better. Doesn't mean I won't use the ready to make from time to time. :)
2. I don't have to take my car everywhere I go.
I have learned to live without a car for 2 years now and have seen and experienced parts of Finland that I never would have if I had a car. I hope to remember to take that adventure with me where ever I live next.
3. Hershey's chocolate will never be the same. I have seen the light and have experienced Fazer chocolate. I will have to get regular shipments when we move back.
4. Patience. Take a number. Wait in line for very long periods of time. Get cut off in line. Doctor office waits(hours). Wait for next bus because there is no room for the stroller. Even with all these frustrations and many more I rarely see a Finn get frustrated. I hope that I can take back with me this form of patience. Just to let day to day things roll of my back and not let it bother me.
5. Endurance.
The winters here are very very cold and dark. They are beautiful when the snow comes,but long. I am truly amazed at how the people here keep going every year . Weather is not an issue here, no snow days, no hibernating. Life continues not only in just getting through the winter but they rise to the occasion and experience winter. Ice skating, ice fishing, wind surfing on the ice, cross country skiing, sledding, ice swimming ( on my bucket list), the list goes on and on.
6. Independent.
I do feel that giving and receiving service to one another is vital in life, but I am a strong advocate for one to be self sufficient as much as possible because I feel it helps a person to feel accomplished and happy. I have seen so many elderly people pushing their heavy duty off roading walkers around. One man I saw had two by fours strapped to his walker and he was on his way to go build something. The Finns have an amazing strength to them and they just keep doing. It's something I admire.
7. Silence
I had a difficult time with this when I first moved here( ok still do), but have learned that you don't always have to make small talk. Sometimes it's nice to be sitting in the bus after a long day and you don't feel that you need to strike up a conversation with the person next to you. When you do have something to say it has more meaning. ( not saying I don't continue to ramble). Silence is sometimes nice to have so that you can sit and ponder or meditate. Silence can even sometimes be nice to share with someone else. :)
8. Honesty
If you lose something. 99 percent of the time you will get it back here in Finland. The people here are so honest in that aspect. Even things that you are trying to lose keep turning up. I don't think I have a problem in this area, but its another thing that I find amazing about Finland.
9. Kids can be kids.
It is so refreshing to be able to have my kids go run and play without as much worry here. They have so many wonderful things for kids here for recreation. The Finnish kids are always outside. Weather to them is nothing. I remember it being like that growing up for me. I hope to continue to get my kids to be outside. Enjoy the things around them.
10. I buy only the things I need. Food, clothing, etc are very expensive here. So I don't spend a lot of money on things I don't need. I hope to remember that just because its on sale doesn't mean I should buy it. (this one I fear may be the most difficult to take with me, but fingers crossed.)
I feel like I am writing a goodbye already to Finland, but it's more of reflecting on why I love Finland so that I can take the time to really enjoy the time left we have here. My kids have changed so much in the last couple of years here and I really hope that they have learned a lot as well.
First Christmas here 2011 Ezra still has his binky
The photo below was just taken a couple months ago. I can't believe how old they all look now.
I feel like I am writing a goodbye already to Finland, but it's more of reflecting on why I love Finland so that I can take the time to really enjoy the time left we have here. My kids have changed so much in the last couple of years here and I really hope that they have learned a lot as well.
First Christmas here 2011 Ezra still has his binky
The photo below was just taken a couple months ago. I can't believe how old they all look now.